Thursday, January 7, 2010

Be In Prayer in 2010

Pray without ceasing. 1 Thessalonians 5:17


I pray in the multiple church services our family attends each week. I pray before meals. I pray when I think the semi driver behind me on the interstate is driving just a little closer than I would like on an icy, snowy road. However, I am not as faithful as I should be when it comes to praying for my friends and family and their daily needs.

For a long time I kept a prayer journal. I had pages for missionaries and their general and specific prayer requests. I had a page for my husband and one for each of my children listing my prayers for them. I had pages for general friend and family prayer requests.

I'm not quite as organized with in my prayer life as I used to be (or with my finances or in general, as you may recall from prior posts). I have been convicted that I need to get my prayer life back in order this year.

There are so many who need prayer right now. We have friends and family members who have health needs, financial needs, job needs, and spiritual needs. That is just in our little corner of the world. Turn on the news or surf the internet and you can't miss the signs of a world that is in need of prayer.

I pulled out a new notebook last night and started up a new prayer journal. Our family has also committed to pray for a few families in Mexico we were connected with through missionary friends of ours. I am going to recommit myself to prayer this year.

My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O Lord; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up. Psalm 5:3.

Veering Off Course, Ever So Slightly

When I talk about our home school, I am always quick to point out that we rely on a prepared curriculum. Possibly this is to validate our school choice in the mind of my listener. Perhaps it is to reassure myself that I can't be doing too much damage to my children because I am using a curriculum put together by educators and used in some school. Probably it is because I just feel the need to talk a lot and give lots of details about our children and our home school.


As we start back to school in the new year I am feeling the desire to make some changes to our school routine. I suppose it is just my wish to test a little of the freedom home schooling is able to offer. Of course, these aren't major changes at all - they are more like baby steps. However, they are changes nonetheless, and so I thought I would share them.

As I mentioned previously, our oldest daughter will be starting Algebra at the semester break. Her 6th grade teacher worked with her on a number of 7th grade math topics, so this year was a lot of review in math for her anyway. We told her that we wanted her to complete 7th grade math this year, but she could do it at her own pace. She will complete the coursework for the year in the next two weeks. We did not want her to go for 9 months without having any math, so we decided to let her move ahead when she is finished. If she was in school, she would be skipping 8th grade math and moving to Algebra, so that is what we decided to do. She is really excited about it. I have to say that she is really taking to home schooling and has already asked several times if she ever HAS to go back to school.

Our entire family is going to start taking Spanish at the semester break. Both Rebecca and Timothy took Spanish in school and my husband and I took several years when we were younger. We are using the Switched On Schoolhouse Secondary Spanish course for this, which will allow us to set up a separate student profile for all of us. We are hoping to improve enough that we can correspond better with pastors and families we met in Mexico and so we can better communicate with them on our next mission trip.

Writing assignments are also going to get a little retooling this spring. We have mostly had to children do the writing assignments that were included in each of their books. We have also been having this children do additional writing assignments as well, including writing letters and book reports. In the spring, we would like them to continue with writing letters and book reports and also add in camp scholarship writing assignments and book reviews. That's a lot of writing. To keep them from getting bogged down with too much writing, we are going to cut the number of textbook writing assignments they are responsible for finishing.

Home Economics is also going to expand in the spring. The children already have worked on cooking and baking, laundry, and general cleaning. This spring, they are going to be learning to sew and learning budgeting. Our plans for the budgeting lessons are way too long to include here, so I will save those for a future post.

Finally (I think!), we will be enhancing our music offerings. Rebecca and Timothy are already taking piano lessons, and have for three years now. In the next month, they are both going to start taking acoustic guitar lessons.

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Making Over Our Money

My husband and I have been reading through the Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey. We bought the book a few years ago, read it, placed it on a shelf, and promptly forgot about it. Surprisingly, financial freedom did not follow. With all the job and income changes of the past year, and with an eye toward my husband being back in school this year, we pulled the book out, dusted it off, and are reading it again.


Here is what we have learned so far: We are blessed to have no car payment and a lot less credit card debt than most people - but the fact that we still have credit card debt means that we are not patting ourselves on the back. Any credit card debt is too much. We need to get back to budgeting. For years we had a detailed budget - everything down to love offerings and gas for the vehicles was included for each month of the year. In the last few years we have gotten away from that. We need to find extra sources of additional income and work more diligently to maximize the sources we do have. An excellent opportunity to work on my goal of being diligent this year!

Long term goal: Be debt free, of course!

Short term goal steps to reach our long term goal: By the end of the week, we will have our budget for January drawn up and have a draft for February completed. We will also have a spreadsheet detailing exactly what we owe to every creditor. By the end of the month, we will have our emergency fund in a safe but accessible location. By the end of the year, we will have all of our medical bills, credit cards, and a small loan paid off.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Goals, Goals, Goals

We were challenged this Sunday in church to set goals for the year. My husband and I sat down Sunday afternoon and made a list of long-term goals and the short-term steps we would need to take to meet those goals. I am still debating whether or not to post the entire chart. In the meantime, here is a glimpse into our family goals for 2010.


Finances: We are going to pay down remaining debt (student loans, mortgage debt, and a remaining medical bill). To do this we have decided to set aside all of the money my husband makes refereeing in a separate bank account. At the end of each week, we will write a check for the amount of his earnings and use it toward payment of a debt.

Educational: We will get my husband back in school by the fall, so he can get his teaching certificate. We will continue to find educational, athletic, and art activities for our children to enhance our homeschooling. I will also get the children started on more home economics projects in addition to the cooking and cleaning they do now. Budgeting and sewing classes are on the horizon!

Spiritual: We will each read our Bible at least 5 days a week and have more regular family devotionals.

Personal: My husband and I will continue to get back in shape. We are not getting any younger and between my back and his knees we need to continue losing weight and working out. We will make better food choices and work out on a regular basis.

Monday, January 4, 2010

Back to School

All good things must come to an end, as the old saying goes.  Christmas break 2009-2010 was definitely good around our house, but today we had to say good-bye to sleeping in and lazy days.

Our big kids started back to school today in full force.  Reading books and articles about history and science, writing paragraphs and papers on foreign cultures and significant people, studying for quizzes and tests, and beginning research projects.  All this while continuing writing, reading, and service projects for camp scholarships. 

Our youngest is (finally) interested in learning to read, so she is constantly asking anyone she can find to sit and read to her.  That is definitely not a complaint!  We are all excited that she is starting to get interested in reading.  She is still having trouble pronouncing a number of letters and blended sounds, so we are working with her on pronunciation and praying that this speech problem will be corrected soon.  However, we are not opposed to bringing in some help for her if she doesn't outgrow it.

New school project for this half of the school year include Algebra for Rebecca, Spanish for the whole family, and Home Economics for Rebecca, Timothy, and Linden.

Be Diligent in 2010

Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him, in peace, without spot, and blameless.  2 Peter 3:14.

I have a tendency to get very excited about an idea, or a ministry, or a goal.  At first, I am into my new venture 100%.  Whatever it is, I am totally faithful.  Read my Bible in a year - no problem, I'm doing two days worth of reading every morning.  Send cards and/or letters to all the people on my husband's monthly prayer list - all cards written, stamped and addressed by the second of the month.  Lose a little weight - piece of (fat-free) cake as I am tracking every single bite I eat and working out like a mad woman.  You get the idea.

Then, little by little, I start to fall behind.  Now, I'm barely getting through the entire reading assignment for the day in my Bible reading program.  Cards and letters are all getting out, but most are postmarked the last day of the month.  As for the diet, my entries are more like summaries vague ideas than detailed entries.  It's not that I care about these things any less, but that their importance is overtaken by day-to-day realities. 

Now of course, every project or whim of mine is not work done for the glory of God.  With some tasks, it's most likely better than my excitement fades and my attention is diverted.  However, when it comes to Bible reading, prayer, extending support for those who need encouragement, I must be diligent and continue on with the same enthusiasm I exhibit at the beginning of a project.  This year I will diligent about being diligent!

But without faith it is impossible to please him:  for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.  Hebrews 11:6.

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Happy 2010!

Our Christmas decorations are put away for another year and we are well into our annual January cleaning projects.  Here are a few pictures from our Christmas festivities.
 



 Our living room - before the madness



Timothy, Linden, and Rebecca showing off their Christmas pajamas



 Linden got the movie she wanted and Timothy was thrilled to get a
New Orleans Saints outfit for his Build-A-Bear


Rebecca is holding fabric that was later turned into 2 denim skirts. 
We looked all over and could not find any denim skirts that were
longer than 6 inches - it was very depressing shopping for clothes this year.
Fortunately for us, we have a daughter that loves to get mama-made clothes!