Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Harnessing Stress, Wednesday, March 24, 2010

How Can We Channel Stress to Work for God's Glory and Our Good?

Discover the Eternal Principles


Wednesday: Finding time to be alone with God is essential to our spiritual health and is rejuvenating to our mind in times of stress.  Matthew 14:3-23.
  1. Upon hearing about John the Baptist's death, why was the immediate response of Jesus to withdraw to a solitary place?  Why do you thing Jesus chose to pray alone, instead of with the crowd or with the disciples?  Why is spending time alone with God essential?  How does it help you in times of stress?  How does time alone with God differ from corporate worship?  Why are both important?
  2. Once we have spent time alone with God, we need to allow ourselves diversions from the stress.  Our physical bodies need time to rest, and our minds need time to recover and relax.  Even God rested when he finished creating the world; certainly we do not need less.  What happens when we do not take time to rest?  What do you do to relax during stressful times?
  3. In her stress management seminars, Charlotte Sutton suggests prioritizing activities into categories of critical, important, and unimportant to help with time management.  How could prioritizing help us find time for solitude and rest?  What would be on your critical list?  What do you consider unimportant?  What would you say are the priorities of Jesus?  What should our priorities be?

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Harnessing Stress, Tuesday, March 23, 2010

How Can We Channel Stress to Work for God's Glory and Our Good?

Discover the Eternal Principles

Tuesday:  Acceptance of God's sovereign will, no matter what the circumstances, gives us peace and courage to face whatever comes.  Esther 4:6-17.
  1. What was Esther's first reaction to Mordecai's request that she go into the king's presence and beg for mercy for her people?  How did Mordecai hold her accountable?
  2. Holly Miller suggests that when we are under stress, we should find someone who will be strong enough to hold us accountable.  How can having someone to whom you are accountable help you complete a task?  How can it spiritually help you in difficult times?
  3. How does prayer help us accept God's sovereignty in our lives?  Why is it important to ask others to pray for us?  How has prayer helped you during stressful times?
  4. How did Esther show her trust in God's sovereignty?  Romans 8:28 says that God promises to work all things for the good of those who love him.  How does this help us trust God?  How does it help us endure difficult times?
  5. How did Esther harness her stress to help her accomplish God's will in her life?

Monday, March 22, 2010

Harnessing Stress, Monday, March 22, 2010

How Can We Channel Stress to Work for God's Glory and Our Good?

Stress can cause a host of emotional, spiritual, and physical problems.  None of us, however, can avoid stress completely.  The key is not to eliminate stress, but to handle it in a way that is godly and productive.  Holly G. Miller, in her article for TODAY'S CHRISTIAN WOMAN, said if stress is carefully harnessed, it can create positive results in our lives.  These results include increased productivity, greater effectiveness, and renewed energy.

How can we harness stress to make us more productive?  What is the difference between stress and worry?  How do we deal with the stresses of life without it affecting our physical, emotional, and spiritual health in a negative way?  Is it possible stress can be good for us?  How can we glorify God despite our stressful circumstances?  This study will explore these issues.

Based on:

"Positively Stressed," by Holly G. Miller, TODAY'S CHRISTIAN WOMAN, July/August 1998, Vol. 20, No. 4, Page 74.

Scripture:

Joshua 1:1-18          Esther 4:6-17                          Matthew 14:3-23
Romans 8:28           2 Corinthians 11:22-12:10       Philippians 4:4-9

Identify the Current Issue

We live in a stress-filled society.  Multitasking is a way of life.  We are often trying to balance our job with raising kids, attending extracurricular activities, carpooling, community service, volunteering, and working in the church.  When we add to our busy schedules health issues, caring for others, and the trials of life, we can feel overwhelmed.

Stress is inevitable.  It is often caused by circumstances that we cannot avoid or control.  Worry, however, is a spiritual and emotional response to stress that drains energy and can create a host of problems.  When we cast our cares on Jesus, he gives us the strength to endure and persevere through difficult times.  In this way God is glorified, and we can accomplish God's will in our lives, despite the circumstances.  By God's grace, we can channel stress to work for us instead of against us.

Discover the Eternal Principles

Monday:  Meditating on God's Word reminds us that God is always with us, and that he gives us the courage and strength to accomplish His will in all circumstances.  Joshua 1:1-18

  1. What is the difference between meditating on God's Word and simply reading it?  How does meditation help us apply God's Word to our lives?
  2. How did Joshua call the Israelites to demonstrate courage and obedience?  What was their response?  Why was it important for Joshua to call the people to obedience and courage as God had called him?  How might their unity of purpose have helped them conquer the Promised Land?
  3. Joshua harnessed his stress and began the task by breaking it down into manageable steps.  How does breaking down a task and focusing on one step at a time help us reduce stress?  How do we do this without losing the big picture?
  4. Joshua also delegated responsibility to those under him.  How do you think this might have helped him?  How might it have helped the Israelites?  How do we decide what and when to delegate?
  5. God promises believers that he is with us wherever we go and that he will never leave or forsake us.  What does that mean to you?  How does this promise help you to have courage in times of stress?
  6. Have you ever had a time when fear kept you from conquering something God called you to do?  What blessings may you have missed?  What could you have done differently?

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Kids' Week Books, March 19, 2010

Rebecca
March 19, 2010

Outside my window…it is very grassy, but it is all dead.
Inside the house…it is messy, but some parts are clean.
I am wearing…my pajamas.
I am thankful that…we can go to our friends’ house.
I am hearing…the computer singing for Linden and the scritch-scratching of my pencil.
I am thinking…about how much fun my birthday will be.
I am going…to a friend’s house.
I am reading…Isaiah, 1 Samuel, 2 Corinthians, and cookbooks.
I am hoping…the baby doesn’t spit up on me today.
I am remembering…how much fun our new neighbors are.
From school this week…tests galore, political parties in History, nonfiction/fiction in Language, algebra in Algebra, and systems in Science.
One of my favorite things…to cook peanut-chicken pasta.
A few plans for next week…school, piano, church, and my BIRTHDAY.

Timothy
March 19, 2010

Outside my window…grassy and leafy.
Inside the house…it is messy and loud.
I am wearing…pajamas.
I am thankful that…I’m going to my friends’ house.
I am hearing…a guy talking and singing.
I am thinking…about going to my friends’ house.
I am going…to my friends’ house.
I am reading…2 Corinthians, 1 Samuel, and Isaiah.
I am hoping…we can play with our neighbors.
I am remembering…yesterday when we played with our new friends.
From school this week…I learned about space and verbs.
One of my favorite things…is sports.
A few plans for next week…are school and sleep.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

We are experiencing technical difficulties...

Our computer died suddenly this weekend. Taking my notes and internet access with it. I hope to be back up and running by the weekend. Sorry all! Please check back with me next Monday when I hope to be back to routine posting.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

What A Crazy Week

Whew...I wasn't sure Saturday morning would ever get here.  This has definitely been an interesting week around our house.  Looking back, I am amazed that the kids were able to finish all their planned school work for the week and that my house is relatively clean.

Of course you will recall that my husband had knee surgery on Monday, so we knew this week was going to be a little different as he would need some down time to recover.  Then there was the trip home from the surgery center when we got a flat tire in the pharmacy parking lot and spent some extra time waiting for a wonderful friend of ours to drive so far out of his way to change my tire.  When I went to bed Monday night (by myself, since my husband couldn't get into our bed for the first few nights) I really thought all the excitement for the week was over.  How wrong I was.

My husband spent most of the day Tuesday trying to rest, which was very difficult for him since he couldn't find a comfortable position for his knee.  Around 11:30 Tuesday night, we were both still up in the living room when his phone signaled that he had a new e-mail.  As he read it he started laughing.  He handed me his phone so I could read the e-mail.  It was an invitation to come to Shreveport, Louisiana for a fellowship interview.  A while back, my husband applied for a position through the Louisiana Teaching Fellows program.  This program places new teachers in at-risk classrooms...and they are interested in my husband.
As Tuesday turned into Wednesday my husband and I checked out the interview details on-line.  He could interview at the end of this month or near the middle of April.  We decided not to select an interview time until Wednesday morning, when at least one of us would be coherent.

Wednesday, Thursday and Friday were filled with scheduling an interview (he decided on the March date), making travel plans (thanks to a dear friend who is also a travel agent who helped us with this one), and watching our emergency fund rapidly dwindle away.  By the time we went to bed Friday night my husband had vouchers for his round trip flight, a voucher for his rental car, and a confirmation of reservations for a hotel in Shreveport.  And to think, when I went to bed on Monday night, I believed that the flat tire ordeal would be the most exciting part of my week.  Ha.

As for the fellowship opportunity, we are both experiencing a range of emotions.  We are excited at the prospect of my husband getting this position - he is very interested in teach in a public high school and we feel that he would be wonderful in this type of setting.  We are also confused - we don't know a single person in Louisiana and we are unsure if God wants us to move so far away from our friends and family.  We are nervous - for the interview and the long trip so soon after my husband's surgery.  We are overwhelmed - at the thought of getting our house ready to sell and then selling it in such a bad market.  I for one am thrilled at the thought of living somewhere with many more warm days and much less snow.  And on and on the list goes.

We are trying to concentrate on the day to day as we wait to find out if this is where God wants us.  Through it all, it is so comforting to know that God has a plan for us and that He already knows where we will be this fall.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Coming Next Week

Good morning ladies! 

My devotionals this week were a little short.  Sorry about that.  I didn't realize just how busy I would be taking care of my husband as he recovers from his surgery.

Yesterday marked the end of the I Believe series.  Next week I will be starting a new series on issues such as harnessing stress and confidence.  The format for this next series will be a little different - I promise to tell you more about it Monday morning.

Have a wonderful weekend!